“iGen” by Jean M. Twenge

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  • Kids are growing up slower
    • Teens take longer to try alcohol, sex, and driving
    • Teens have less disposal cash, in part because they do not have jobs
    • Learning to binge drink, the later the more damage
  • In general, iGen drinks less though
  • Gen X took longer to start adolescence but started adulthood earlier
    • iGen is delaying everything
  • Prefrontal cortex development needs experience, so delaying work and other experience may be detrimental to development
  • Disadvantaged kids spend about the same amount of time as privileged kids and electric devices
  • iGen parties less than Gen Me
  • Teen homicides are going down but suicide is going up
  • Social rejection can trigger the same pain centers as physical harm
  • FOBLO (Fear of Being Left Out) is replacing FOMO (Fear of Missing Out)
  • Boys are aggressive physically, girls are aggressive socially
  • Sleep deprivation kills mood
  • iGen is leaving religion because of the hypocritic messaging
  • Safety is a big deal
    • “Emotional safety” is the new thing
    • “Keep safe” and “stay safe” started being said a lot more in the mid-nineties
    • Marijuana is viewed as safe
  • Escalating to arbitration is particularly among high class, loosely connected individuals
  • iGen is more focused on money than prior generations, wanting to “close the gap”
  • iGen values helping others more but does less
  • We are returning to thinking of traditional gender roles
  • iGen is less tolerant of unfavorable speech
    • They believe in equality so much, talking about racial differences is forbidden
  • They align best with libertarianism
  • What to do
    • Delay a smart phone as long as possible
    • Prefer apps that are focused on individual communication
    • Get exercise
    • Only frame things as “safety” unless it is really about safety
    • Job security
    • Tell them, “I want you to succeed”

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