- As work shifted to industry, women stayed at home, but idleness is devil’s work so “motherhood” became their work
- Being able to administer pain killers shifted birthing from midwives to hospitals
- Self-care time was added on top of existing expectations
- Redefining GDP to only include transactions where cash changes hands diminished the role of women in society
- Bringing advertisers to blogs stripped them of controversy
- The migration from blogs to Instagram shifted the emphasis to visuals
Category: Notes
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“Screaming on the Inside” by Jessica Grose
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“Winners Takes All” by Anand Giridharadas
- Much of today’s “social change” is about steering changes away from solutions that harm the wealthy
- Entering the world of money to address the problems caused by money
- Ask what has been done before asking what can be done
- “Win-win” is about solving problems without addressing root causes
- Americans are more productive than ever, but that productivity is captured by the elite
- Connecting networks (like Uber and Facebook) are a double standard if they can dictate terms and disavow control
- Voices of the critics are neglected while we embrace the voices that “ride the wave”
- “Thought leader”
- Focus on the victim, not the perpetrator
- Personalize the political
- Learn to zoom in and tell narratives
- Beliefs naturally shift in accord with interests
- The powerful benefit the most from lawlessness
- We are often trying to solve our problems with the same tools that made them
- Never ask the wealthy to do less harm
- Carnegie argued that the rich should be allowed to make as much money as possible, any way possible, and then give away that money better than the poor would
- Some where’s vs Every where’s
- Some where’s motivate us to action and hide the scale of the problems
- Globalist have “correct” answers that are arrived at by consensus not democracy
- Politics is meant to create ideas that are easy to like but difficult to love
- Globalization is, in part, trying to bypass or compensate for local politics that are not working
- Private investments can crowd out public funding
- “You should do it because it is the right thing to do, but it is not enough to do the right thing, so it is also good business”
- “I can speak in the name of my child, but other people are not your children”
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“The Hidden History of American Oligarchy” by Thom Hartman
- The Civil war about promoting slavery nationwide
- Southern oligarchs turned to debt and the KKK to promote control
- Criminalized debt forces people to keep working through “debt peonage”
- Student debt not being discharged through bankruptcy heightened this peonage
- Add in targeted usage of anti-drug laws
- Convict labor is discreetly legal slavery
- Medical debt is uniquely American
- Organizations devolve into an oligarchy when they are large enough to maintain a managerial class
- “We are keeping you safe”
- They must make sure we know who we are being kept safe from
- Control the language to control the conversation
- Violence against humans is always difficult, you have to “other” them first
- Always take militias
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“Being Wrong” by Kathryn Schulz
- I error therefore I am
- We “know” erroring is human but strive avoid admitting it
- “You can either be ‘right’ or be in a relationship”
- How often are we actually wrong?
- We never feel wrong, we feel when we recognize we are wrong
- Specific mistakes are difficult for us to see and thus appear as an “act of God”
- To eliminate errors, we must know when we are wholly wrong and not just temporarily wrong
- Are errors tangents to the journey to truth or parts of the journey?
- “Err” meant “to move” and eventually gave us “error” and “erratic”
- “Wondering jew” was a curse from Christ to a Jew who teased Christ while carrying the cross
- Memories are poorly understood
- Memories are recreated every time we remember them
- (This makes them volatile, especially if they are interrupted when we are trying to resave them)
- We have a story maker and a fact checker in our brains
- Confabulation is when we make up a story while our fact checker is not available
- “There is no accounting for taste” but we tend to make accounts up
- “Belief” is an overt conviction
- We downplay things we want to dismiss as “self-serving” but drum up things we want to promote by stating it is truth
- Everyone that does not agree with us is because they are ignorant
- “Lack of evidence is not evidence of a lack”
- Wrong bets are not bad bets
- Inductive reasoning saves us a lot of thinking effort
- Be careful with tortured reasoning
- Most of our beliefs are “beliefs second-hand”
- We tend to “see” (alter our perception of the world) to adapt to how those around us see the world
- Our society has a “disagreement deficit”
- (That is, we lack the ability to politely disagree and remain friends)
- Cure, quarantine, or expel
- The original “Zealots” killed each other rather than risk capture
- Too many ideas and not enough convictions
- Doubt is a mental luxury
- Belief is the default; we must think to dismiss something
- We manufacture confidence to avoid having to reconsider if we could be wrong
- We revise our memories to better align with our current beliefs
- Theories are replaced but never dismissed unless a new theory is available
- Error detection tends to start with the smallest possible error rather than bigger issues
- Civilizations operate on the principal of shared expertise
- Denial is a response to feelings not facts
- We assume because we see people from the outside that we can know them from the outside
- We can never know what people are like on the inside
- (“We judge ourselves by our intentions; We just others by their actions”)
- “You don’t know me, but I know you”
- In love, we feel
- Recognition
- Timelessness
- Reunification
- Necessity
- “Everyone complains about their memory. No one complains about their judgement.”
- Loving is more like sharing a story than sharing a soul
- Our desire to be right is really our desire for our beliefs to adhere outside ourselves
- “Stories and theories may be all that we have that God does not”
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“How the other half learns” by Robert Pondiscio
- A lack of reading comprehension is often from a lack of shared experience
- (If we know enough about what is going on, we can figure out the pieces we do not know)
- Education standardization is good
- Instructions should be clear and not subject to interpretation
- Paternal discipline is different from “No excuses”
- Ethics are critical to success
- Focus on outputs more than inputs
- Once children have basic skills, “reading tests” are basically background information checks
- Test based accountability has become an end to itself
- “Is test prep cheating?”
- Car manufactures focused only on driver-side safety until 2016 because insurance only tested and rated the driver-side
- Schools are where kids go to EXPERIENCE societal engagement not just to learn it
- A lack of reading comprehension is often from a lack of shared experience