- Leader-leader vs leader-follower
- Leader/Follower is optimized for extracting physical work
- The message is empowerment but the actions require the leader to empower
- Instead, all can lead
- “Captain, I intend to…”
- Give broad guidance
- Empowerment is needed because we have disempowed people
- “It doesn’t matter how smart the plan is if the team cannot execute it”
- The system doesn’t track performance in the long run, limiting the scope of decisions being made
- Performance decreasing on departure is treated as compliments for a great leader rather than problematic that the team wasn’t better trained
- Questioning is not the same as being curious
- What do you hope we don’t change
- What are you hoping gets changed
- Criticality can come after trust is established
- Focus on excellence, not just avoiding errors
- Move authority to the information, not shuffling the information to the authority
- Have a clear goal and talk about it all the time
- Don’t be afraid of short, early conversations
- Trust is different from reality
- (Issues of accountability are not issues of trust)
- “We/I will” instead of “Can we/I”
- “What do you think I am thinking about this?”
- If the decision can be delayed, get input and make a decision
- Even if the decision needs to be made quickly, try to get inputs
- Lack of informal conversation impedes learning
- Taking deliberate action gives a chance for the team to reduce mistakes
- Competence needs to grow with control
- Don’t brief, certify
- Make sure your leaders are engaged in team processes
- Emancipation is the step beyond empowerment
Blog
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“Turn the Ship Around” by L David Marquet
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“The Psychology of Money” by Morgan Housel
- Knowing what to do is different from how we feel about it
- You are already living the dream
- Brothers are more likely to make the similar income than be similar heights
- Be content with what you have
- Don’t give up what you have because you want/need for something you don’t have and don’t need
- Ice ages are caused by mild summers that don’t melt all the winter snow
- Highest returns tend to be one time hits
- Margin of safety is the most important thing
- Having cash on hand is vital to weathering downtown
- Having expensive things does not make us content
- Fevers are good
- Invest based on what is reasonable not what is rational
- “Things that have never happened before, happen all the time.”
- It is different about 20% of the time
- We started develop a notion that all Americans should have basically the same lifestyle and using debt is okay to do this
- “The more the internet exposes difference in lifestyle, the more people get pissed.”
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“The Conversation” by Robert Livingston
- Proximity is the fastest way to change values
- Conversation, even thinking about having one, is a powerful change
- There is a large gap between perception is equity gap
- (I don’t see the connection between Rights and Treatment. I understand that we have equal Rights but that is not translating into equal treatment.)
- When other people are around, people are less likely to help
- “Bias Credentials” are when we support a person of color and we feel entitled to judge other people of color
- (This is the, “I have a black friend, so it is okay” moment)
- Racism is more of a sticker than a tattoo
- People are more often complicit than racist
- Getting benefits is different from having detractors… They are not opposites
- A strong grounding in authority is associated with racism
- When we feel diminished, we are comfortable to diminish others
- There will always be an “other” group but it is a malleable group
- Brown people have been settling white people since forever
- Key identity trigger: Am I competent? Am I a good person? Am I worthy of love?
- Witnessing discrimination tends to lower our opinion of the person being discriminated
- Compassion is not empathy
- Humans do better recognizing affiliation than race
- Try to add extra categories (try for 4) in addition to race
- Use concurrent validity to avoid timing or measuring bias
- Make sure the thing you are measuring matches the thing you want to improve
- It’s less about having the right answers and more about asking the right questions
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“The Draw of the Sea” by Wyl Menmuir
- The ocean is not so vast that we can do whatever we want with it
- Holding your breathe is more about getting rid of carbon-dioxide
- We should be working in partnership with the ocean ecosystems
- We each take different paths to the ocean
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“Faster” by James Gleick
- “Type A” is not a real thing (at least, not a defined measurable attribute)
- “Cigarettes and shots of whiskey: quick little packages.”
- “Speed” used to be more akin to “success”
- Everyone with email complains about having too much of it