- Britain introduced alcohol to much of the world
- Empire changed the world’s agriculture
- Many of Empire’s laws that exploit have morphed into protective laws
- NGOs are often created to continue the legacy of Empire
- Relying on an NGO undermines national rights
- Homophobic (and sodomy) laws were spread to discourage Imperial workers from infidelities
- Gay marriages were common in Africa mining communities
- Indian homosexuality was common pre-colonial
- The Victorian era was obsessed with controlling sex
- “Britain is basically governed by investigation”
- Skin color was ancient novelty but not grounds for discrimination
- Former Spanish colonies tend to have more stable democracies than former British ones
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“Empireworld” by Sathnam Sanghera
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“The State of Affairs” by Esther Perel
- We have an average of 2-3 significant relationships in our life
- We feel betrayed by violations of ambiguous agreements
- New definition of a relationship
- Secrecy
- Sexual alchemy
- Emotional involvement
- Fire needs air to burn
- Often, the secrecy is what intrigues us
- “Confusing ideal and the real never goes unpunished.”
- We get divorced because we think we could be happier
- All parties are shocked by the revelation of the affair
- We need to transfer vigilance from the betrayed to the betrayer
- Volunteer information to remind the betrayed that you still remember the wrong
- Be careful to recognize the pain rather than trying to solve problems
- We (in the West) take pride in our “lack of jealous”
- We want to know that our partners came back to US, because they want us not because they had nowhere else to go
- Jealousy is a late developing emotion
- “We feel most vulnerable where we are most insecure”
- Contributing to the environment that made the affair happen is different from being responsible for it
- Without a chance to retaliate, we tend to move on faster
- Truth
- Is it honest
- Is it helpful
- Is it kind
- Sometimes silence is kindness
- “Do you really want to know or do you want your partner to know that you have the question?”
- Ask investigative questions not detective questions
- Cheaters do not forfeited all rights to privacy
- Sometimes we are looking for another version of ourselves, not a new partner
- We balance wanting security and adventure; these comes from different places
- Infidelity is most disdained but is still legal
- Breaking the rules is sometimes the point
- “Eros is a light sleeper”
- Time never exists on its own, it is what you do in that time
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“Piping Hot Bees & Boisterous Buzz-Runners” by Thomas D Seeley
- All bees are basically wild
- Bees are sensitive to carbon dioxide
- Hives need enough space to store honey through the winter
- Scouts “debate” over which nest site to choose
- Anomalies help show the power of the rules
- Workers monitor their queen’s location while flying
- Bees fly on full stomachs
- The ladies warm up to 95f before taking off
- Bees do not “shop around” on waggle dances
- Workers adjust their choosiness based on the availability of nectar
- They know this by how long it takes to find someone to take their nectar
- Worker bees are blind to the color red
- Queen are shaken by nurses to encourage them to “prepare for greater activity”
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“A Brief History of Mathematics” by Marcus Du Sautoy
- Calculus is the math of movement
- Symmetry is something you do to a shape not the shape itself
- Gaussian distributions help us understand the mean from a variety of samples
- Every number is either a prime or can be derived by multiplying two prime numbers
- The maths enable science to answer questions
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“Why We Sleep” by Matthew Walker, PhD
- Sleep disruption plays with your hormones, causing you to be more hungry, and spikes blood sugar
- Fatigue leads to more car accidents than being intoxicated
- We use sleep to strengthen memories
- Most living thing have their own internal clocks
- Even very little sun light resets our internal rhythm
- Genetics tend to determine chrono type
- Owls are not owls by choice
- Melatonin kicks off sleep but does not actually cause sleep
- Adenosine accumulate once you are awake
- Caffeine occupies the adenosine receptors so you do not realize how tired you are
- Decafe is not caffeine free
- Adenosine requires sleep to draw down
- It takes about one day to adjust per hour travelled across time zones
- Prolonged sleep deprivation can require several days to recover from
- All psychiatric disorders have bad sleep associated with them
- Sleep management generally helps treatment
- Sleep deprivation prevents learning new things
- We replay memories during dreams at slower speeds than originally experienced
- (Is this why we relive things in dreams and often are caught running slowly or being stuck)?
- nREM sleep mostly happens early at night with REM happening mostly later
- nREM sleep is mostly about pruning memories
- Waking up early, cuts into REM sleep
- We have “sleep spindles” that layer in “noise” to help us better ignore real noise in the environment
- Everything with a brain sleeps
- Only animals and birds REM sleep
- Animals that sleep longer tend to sleep better
- Pinnipeds sleep on land and in water, but only REM on land
- After sleep deprivation, nREM is the most quickest to recover
- We can never fully recover missed sleep
- Sleep deprivation triggers more eating because the mind thinks food is scarce
- The notion of “second sleep” seems to be more of a fashion, not biology
- Siestas are great for humans
- Babies moving in the womb are generally asleep
- Infant sleep deprivation arrests brain development
- Put your child to bed when they are drowsy, not after they are asleep
- Any alcohol in the a woman’s blood affects in utero’s ability to sleep well
- Teenagers need more, later sleep then adults and older children
- “No child needs caffeine.”
- Older adults still need as much sleep, they just struggle to get it
- nREM helps facts memories best
- Rocking during sleep allows for deeper sleep
- “Practice plus sleep makes prefect”
- People do not know how tired they are
- Sleep deprivation literally shortens your ability to manage emotions
- Staying awake all night only burns an extra ~140 calories
- REM sleep + dreams are critical for healthy mind operation
- Dreaming of emotional trauma helps dissolve emotions related to those memories
- Dreams help tune our emotional processing centers
- REM sleep likes to make bizarre and eclectic connections
- Sleep deprivation kills us
- “sleep opportunity” (having an appropriate environment) is different from actual sleep
- Fading light and cool air control the release of melatonin
- Sleeping cold is good
- Sleeping pills disconnect your brain but do not enable healthful sleep
- The original factory whistle was supposed to wake you up so you could get to work on time
- Don’t hit the Snooze button! It is a small heart-attack multiple times in the morning
- “REM sleep stands between rationality and lunacy”
- Amphetamine is a power “awake drug”
- Some ADHD are actually sleep deprived
- A lack of sleep increasing the chances of one being unethical